Love in the beginning, distance later? These small signs tell whether love is true or not

If you want to understand a relationship, you have to apply not only your heart but also your mind. Often it happens that a girl does not know whether the boy really loves her or is just trying to express his intentions. There are some small hints which reveal the real truth. Therefore, it is important to look at everything not only with heart but also with some understanding.

In the beginning there is a lot of love, talking a lot, being together all the time, then suddenly the boy becomes cold, talks less or starts shying away from meeting, then understand that something is wrong. This is a clear indication that his attention is somewhere else or the relationship is no longer his priority.

If he only thinks about his needs, comfort or benefits all the time and does not listen to you. If he wants to get everything done his way, then this relationship is no longer equal. Here it is only his benefit, not yours.

Often hiding the truth in small and big matters, avoiding phone calls or chats, not telling exactly where one is going or repeatedly twisting the topic, all this shakes the foundation of the relationship. It is difficult to trust such boys and you may get cheated in the future.

It is very important to give time in a relationship. If he avoids meeting every time due to work fatigue or any other excuse and never takes forward plans with you, then assume that his interest has diminished. Such a relationship does not progress.

If he repeatedly demands money, puts pressure on getting things done, wants help from you all the time but does nothing for you, then understand that he only wants his convenience and not love.

If he ignores your words, dreams or feelings and keeps you away from friends and family or wants to control everything, then this relationship becomes not a burden but a burden. In such a situation, it is right to protect yourself.