It has been two years since Rahul and Neeha got married. Before marriage, both of them would talk for hours every night on social media, smile on video calls and express their love in every message. But after marriage, these digital habits gradually became a problem for them. Today his phone has become the biggest partner in his life. This story is not only seen between Rahul and Neeha, but is being seen among most of the couples. For couples, mobile has become a part of their routine and emotional life. The phone remains in hand till sleeping, it has become a habit to look at the screen as soon as we wake up in the morning. By doing this, real time connection with the partner is reduced, conversation becomes a formality.
Emotional and physical distance is increasing in marriage
Not only this, husband and wife, busy day and night in WhatsApp, Instagram and messaging, are forgetting their real connection and differences over small matters are increasing. Digital attachment between couples is weakening the love. Due to this, not only emotional bonding but also physical intimacy is being affected. So is there any solution for this? Experts say that the sooner a solution to this problem is adopted, the better.
This is the solution-
Digital Detox: Keep your phone aside 1-2 hours before sleeping and spend this time in quality time with your partner.
Open Communication: Share small or big things immediately. Avoid ignorance or misunderstandings on social media as much as possible and if necessary, talk about it together. So that mutual understanding remains.
Quality Time and Physical Closeness: Talk without phone for at least 30 minutes every day, hold hands or sit together, make each other feel good.
Set routines and rules: Limit phone use at night. If you have to watch, fix a time slot with your partner or share the screen together.
Trust and Space: Privacy is important between partners. If you are trying to keep a constant watch then it can create a rift in the relationship.
remember that Mobile makes life easier, but when it becomes a replacement for relationships, love and closeness are in danger. The story of Rahul and Neeha reminds us that Real love lies not in messages and calls, but in face-to-face communication, time spent together and mutual understanding. In this way, it can be said that if you want to maintain love and intimacy in a relationship, then give value to real connections, not mobile phones, in life and keep trying to make your relationships strong, loving and happy.
